Portrait Of A Friend

This poem reminds me of my own best friends... and all of the special moments I've shared with them. I chose to use it here as my first post because I smiled when I read it — so with a hope to make you smile when you remember your special moments... here's the poem - Enjoy!

I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts,

Or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will

Search for answers.

I can't change your past with all its heartache and pain,

Nor the future with its untold stories.

But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can't keep your feet from stumbling.

I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;

Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;

I can only support you, encourage you,

And help you when you ask.

I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship,

From your values, from me.

I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you,

But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,

Room to be yourself.

I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,

But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces

And put them back in place.

I can't tell you who you are.

I can only love you and be your friend.

I found this on Orkut in an "About Me" description of a friend's friend. It's not my own poem, but whoever has written it, kudos dude(or gal... I frankly don't remember exactly who that person was)!

What do you feel? Is this how your best friend is too?